1 Corinthians 11:8

1 Corinthians 11:8 says, For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Paul here was speaking about the creation of men and women.  Man, Adam, was created from the dust of the earth, and woman, Eve, from the rib of the man.  Still, the woman was not created to serve the man, but to be a helpmate, or completion of man.  None of the other animals were capable of filling this role.  The fact that the man was created first in no way makes the woman less in the eyes of God.  When we start to speak about the role of men and women, we must understand it as they are themselves under the leadership of God.  We cannot expect those who do not believe in Christ as Savior and Lord to live by God's standards.  Verse nine adds, Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.  This is really in my opinion a continuation of what I was just discussing.  When we read the creation account in Genesis, we do see that woman was created out of man, but not to be his servant, but to be his companion.  The key will always be that both are under the leadership of God.  When God's will comes first, both will be in agreement as to how they can best serve and bring glory to God.  Verse ten continues, For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.  Matthew Henry sees this as having her head covered in public, but I believe it means that she should do nothing that would dishonor God and His angels.  Verse eleven states, Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.  I believe that Paul was teaching that both men and women need each other, but they need to both be following God's will in the relationship.  Men and women were created for different purposes in the world, but they were both created to follow God's will and to uplift each other.  Verse twelve adds, For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God.  Since creation, where woman was created out of man, man has been born of woman, but as Paul reminds us, both are from God, as are all things. Verse thirteen continues, Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered? Again, I believe that Paul was referring to the customs of that day, but if we truly believe that God is dishonored by the way we dress, then we should change the way we dress. Verse fourteen says, Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?  Paul lived in the same time as Jesus for part of his life, and he said it was a shame for a man to have long hair.  Yet, we always see Jesus portrayed as having very long hair.  Now, is this an accurate picture, or does it really matter? We are not called to be like Jesus physically, but spiritually.  Verse fifteen adds, But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.  Paul says a woman should have long hair.  We often get into disputes about men having long hair, but seldom apply the same dispute to women having short hair.  I believe we must interpret what Paul was saying to mean that whatever we do must be done for the glory of God and not for our own vanity.  Verse sixteen continues, But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God.  I believe that Paul was saying that if a person disagreed with the way that custom taught that they should dress, there was no rule in the church that they had to comply.  The way we dress in church has changed even in my lifetime.  Women used to always wear dresses and men suits and ties if they had them, especially the preachers.  Now, it seems that wearing a tie is almost an oddity.  Again, it isn't what we wear that is important, but that we follow God in all things.  As long as men and women are truly following God, there will be little room for contention in the relationship between the two.  God must be in charge of both, and He will always lead them to unity through Christ.