Philemon 1:7 says, For we have great joy and consolation in thy love, because the bowels of the saints are refreshed by thee, brother. Paul told Philemon that he was a great joy and consolation to them because of his refreshing the saints. He doesn’t specify who was with him at this time nor does he say how Philemon had refreshed the saints, but I believe he may have helped meet their physical needs. We need people today who are willing to meet not only the spiritual but also the physical needs of others, especially our fellow Christians when they are in need.
Verse eight adds, Wherefore, though I might be much bold in Christ to enjoin thee that which is convenient, Paul then said he could claim that he had the right in Christ to make a demand of Philemon to do what was convenient for Paul. Though we may be doing a lot for God today and be in need of something that someone else could provide, we don’t have the right to demand that they do so.
Verse eight continues, Yet for love's sake I rather beseech thee, being such an one as Paul the aged, and now also a prisoner of Jesus Christ. Paul said that out of love for Christ that he wasn’t going to make a demand of Philemon but was going to ask him for something. He identified himself as Paul the aged but said that Philemon was a prisoner of Christ as well, not physically but spiritually. We should never think that we should be able to make demands of other Christians just because we have a need and have been a follower of Christ longer than they have.
Verse ten states, I beseech thee for my son Onesimus, whom I have begotten in my bonds: Paul said he was writing to Philemon on behalf of his son Onesimus, who had accepted Jesus Christ when Paul witnessed to him, even though Paul was imprisoned at the time. Our circumstances should never dictate whether we witness for God or not. We should continue to worship no matter what.
Verse eleven adds, Which in time past was to thee unprofitable, but now profitable to thee and to me: Paul said that at one time Onesimus had not been profitable to Philemon, but now he was profitable to both Philemon and Paul. Onesimus was a runaway slave, and as such he was not profitable to Philemon, but now he was willing to return, still as a slave, and was helping Paul in the meantime, so he was profitable to both of them. Before we accept Jesus Christ as our Savior and Lord, we are running away from God and are unprofitable to Him spiritually, but once we accept Jesus Christ, we become spiritually profitable to God and should also be a spiritual help to those around us.