Job 19:15 says, They that dwell in mine house, and my maids, count me for a stranger: I am an alien in their sight.  Job said that even those who lived in his house and had served him acted as though they didn't know who he was.  We may forget that even at this time at least some of Job's servants reminded.  Job had been a good master to his maids and servants, but now that he was in need of comfort, they did not even want to look on Him.  I believe it is safe to say that Job had treated his servants well, or God would not have held him up as an example of a truly righteous man.  Verse sixteen says, I called my servant, and he gave me no answer; I intreated him with my mouth.  Since Job was seemingly cast down by God, his servants no longer answered his call.  We need to acknowledge that if we see a person in great need, especially a fellow Christian, we are called to minister to them, and are not called to abandon them.  Then in verse seventeen Job states,  My breath is strange to my wife, though I intreated for the children’s sake of mine own body.  Job was abandoned by the person who should have been his greatest source of comfort in this life, his wife.  Job said he would have gladly died in his children's place, and his wife should have known this.  We have to understand that we cannot die for another person.  Only Christ was able to do that.  Still, we would like to believe that if we suffer a great loss, if we are married, that our spouse would truly be with us in sickness and in health.  Verse eighteen says, Yea, young children despised me; I arose, and they spake against me. Children tend to follow the example of adults, and since the adults around him despised Job, so did they.  I believe that we could use this as an example of why we need to set a good example for our children.  They may not always follow our good example, but we certainly do not want them following a bad one that we set for them.  Verse nineteen says, All my inward friends abhorred me: and they whom I loved are turned against me.  It is bad enough if our casual acquaintances abandon us in time of need, but Job said his closest friends, those that he had loved, had turned against him.  I believe that is what happens when people base friendship on material things.  Job could no longer offer his closest friends anything, so they abandoned him.  Verse twenty declares, My bone cleaveth to my skin and to my flesh, and I am escaped with the skin of my teeth.  Job said that he was still alive, but that he was barely holding on.  There are people today, even Christians, who are barely holding on to hope in life, and we as followers of Christ need to be there with them to offer comfort in their hour of need.  In verse twenty one Job cries out, Have pity upon me, have pity upon me, O ye my friends; for the hand of God hath touched me.  Job was pleading with his friends to show him compassion, even though he felt that Go d was punishing him.  If we feel that God has indeed punished us for whatever reason, then this is the time we need the comfort of friends the most. Verse twenty two asks,  Why do ye persecute me as God, and are not satisfied with my flesh?  Job believed that he was being punished by God, and asked his friends why they weren't satisfied with God's punishment but felt the need to punish him more.  We need to be satisfied with the way God deals with each person, and if we feel that He is punishing them, then they need our comfort even more.  Verse twenty three says, Oh that my words were now written! oh that they were printed in a book!  Fortunately for us they were, so we can learn from what happened to Job and his friends.  Verse twenty four says, That they were graven with an iron pen and lead in the rock for ever!  They were preserved even better than by being chiseled in stone.  Job's words were preserved by God Himself.  In verse twenty five, Job declares, For I know that my redeemer liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth:  We, like Job, have to know that our Redeemer lives and will return for us.  Verse twenty six says, And though after my skin worms destroy this body, yet in my flesh shall I see God: Like Job, we need to declare that even if this body returns to dust, we will one day see God not only in the spirit, but in the flesh as well.  Job continues in verse twenty seven, Whom I shall see for myself, and mine eyes shall behold, and not another; though my reins be consumed within me.  We like Job need to stand firm in our faith that we will see God.  If the spirit alone were saved, there would be no reason for Christ to return.  Verse twenty eight says,  But ye should say, Why persecute we him, seeing the root of the matter is found in me?  Job asked if the root of his persecution was found in him, why did his friends feel the need to persecute him.  If we feel that someone is being punished by God, it is not our role to add to persecute them.  We should pray for their restoration and not condemn them for their condition.  Verse twenty nine warns, Be ye afraid of the sword: for wrath bringeth the punishments of the sword, that ye may know there is a judgment.  I believe that Job was warning his friends that they were setting themselves up for God's judgment.  If we attempt to judge others today as though we are morally superior, then we too will face God's judgment of our actions.

Job 19:1 says, Then Job answered and said,  After Bildad stopped speaking, Job answered him.  Job did not interrupt or get in a shouting match with Bildad, but listened to him before answering.  Verse two asks, How long will ye vex my soul, and break me in pieces with words?  Job had already asked his friends to just be quiet if they could offer him no hope or understanding of why he was in this situation.  If we can offer no help or any solution to a person's current suffering we are better off simply sitting with them and praying for them.  Job's friends came to him with preconceived ideas about why he was suffering and would not listen to his reasoning, nor did they ask God for a better understanding so they could really comfort Job.  We cannot go into any situation and attempt to make it confirm our belief about that situation.  We must first seek God's guidance and then listen to what the person who is suffering has to say with compassion and not judgment.   Verse three says, These ten times have ye reproached me: ye are not ashamed that ye make yourselves strange to me.  We only know of five times that Job's friends spoke to him, but that does not mean that they hadn't spoken more often.  Matthew Henry says that this indicated that those five times they spoke were double in their condemnation of Job.  Either way, Job said that even though they weren't, they should be ashamed of their treatment of him.  Verse four states, And be it indeed that I have erred, mine error remaineth with myself.  Job said that if he had erred, or sinned, that was a matter between God and himself.  We cannot determine the relationship between God and any other person. We can only account for our own sins.  Verse five says, If indeed ye will magnify yourselves against me, and plead against me my reproach:  Job said that his friends were magnifying themselves and condemning him.  We must be careful to never view ourselves as above others.  If we are followers of Christ, we are still simply sinners saved by grace.  We should not magnify our relationship to God as being superior to anyone else's.  In verse six Job states,  Know now that God hath overthrown me, and hath compassed me with his net.  Though Job was mistaken in thinking that God was directly responsible for his current situation, he still saw it as being between God and himself.  We will each answer for our own sins and that alone should keep us from trying to judge others.  We all have enough to answer for.  Verse seven says, Behold, I cry out of wrong, but I am not heard: I cry aloud, but there is no judgment.  Job still felt that God did not hear him.  If we feel isolated from God, we need to remember that He has not abandoned us.  Verse eight says, He hath fenced up my way that I cannot pass, and he hath set darkness in my paths.  I believe that Job felt since he thought that God was the source of his suffering that there was no way out.  We need to remember that if God allows us to suffer, He will also provide a way out of that suffering if we remain true to Him.  In verse nine Job says,  He hath stripped me of my glory, and taken the crown from my head.  I believe that Job thought that his success in life was a reward for his serving God faithfully, and that had been stripped away.  The truth is that we serve God for His glory and not our own.  That is one problem with a prosperity gospel.  If we suddenly face a material failure, then we have to blame God.  Verse ten states, He hath destroyed me on every side, and I am gone: and mine hope hath he removed like a tree.  Job saw no way to turn.  He felt that God had surrounded him with misery.  Verse eleven says, He hath also kindled his wrath against me, and he counteth me unto him as one of his enemies.  Though Job felt that God counted him as an enemy to be tormented and then destroyed, we know this was not the case.  As followers of Christ, God will never seek to destroy us, though our possessions may be destroyed.  God was still with Job, even if Job didn't feel God's presence.  We should never allow any situation to make us feel abandoned by God.  Verse twelve says, His troops come together, and raise up their way against me, and encamp round about my tabernacle.  Job thought the whole army of God was against him.  Verse thirteen states, He hath put my brethren far from me, and mine acquaintance are verily estranged from me.  Job felt God was against him and his friends no longer wanted to be around him.  In verse fourteen Job declares, My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.  Job felt very alone in the world, abandoned by friends, family, and most importantly by God.  Even if our friends desert us, we would hope that our family would not.  If friends and family desert us, we need to know that God will not.  Just because we may not understand what is happening in life and may not feel the presence of God, as His followers we can be certain that He is always with us.

Job 18:11 says, Terrors shall make him afraid on every side, and shall drive him to his feet.  Bildad is still speaking of the fate of the wicked, but again he is applying this to what was happening with Job.  He said that the wicked would be so afraid that they could not rest.  I am not sure that the lost people in the world all have trouble resting in this world, but if they acknowledge the fact that the soul of man never dies, they should have trouble resting.  In this life they may have comfort, but this life is but temporary.  Verse twelve says, His strength shall be hungerbitten, and destruction shall be ready at his side.   We need to remember that Bildad was still attempting to prove to Job that sin had led Job to his current condition.  Bildad was saying that sin always brought pain and suffering to a person, but again we know this is not always true.  We cannot attempt to claim that if a person, especially a Christian, is suffering that it is a punishment from God.  Verse thirteen says, It shall devour the strength of his skin: even the firstborn of death shall devour his strength.  Since Job was suffering such a fate, Bildad was saying that Job should expect this due to the sin in his life and his refusal to acknowledge it.  When we see a person suffering today, we cannot attribute this to God's punishment of sin.  They may be like Job and be having their faith put to the test.  If God always materially rewarded those who follow Him, and materially punished those who do not, it would be much easier to get people to follow Him.  We cannot put our faith in God only for those material blessings, but must remain true to Him, no matter what, just as Job did.  Verse fourteen says, His confidence shall be rooted out of his tabernacle, and it shall bring him to the king of terrors.  This is the ultimate fate of those who do not accept Christ as their Savior and Lord, but it does not equate to material blessings in this world.  When a person stands before God unforgiven, that person will indeed face the king of terrors.  Verse fifteen says, It shall dwell in his tabernacle, because it is none of his: brimstone shall be scattered upon his habitation.  I believe that Bildad was saying that there was no place for the sinner to be safe from God's judgment.  Bildad was still thinking about material things being a sign of God's blessings, and saying that God would tear down all that sinners did.  Though it is true that ultimately, at the end of this world, no unsaved sinner, those not redeemed by personal faith in Christ, can find a place to be safe from God's judgment, that does not mean that they will always be punished materially or physically in life.  Verse sixteen says, His roots shall be dried up beneath, and above shall his branch be cut off.  Bildad was still attempting to apply the punishment of sinners to this world, and especially to Job.  Verse seventeen adds, His remembrance shall perish from the earth, and he shall have no name in the street.  Job had indeed been cut down and was already forgotten by all his friends for all practical purposes.  Verse eighteen states, He shall be driven from light into darkness, and chased out of the world.  Job's world was indeed full of darkness and he was close to death.  Bildad was telling Job that these things were proof that Job was being punished by God.  We cannot apply eternal truths to temporary situations just to support our beliefs.  Had Bildad and his two friends been praying for the understanding of God's will in what was happening to Job, they would have seen the truth of the situation.  We can never just assume to know God's will, but must always ask His guidance in understanding it.  Verse nineteen says, He shall neither have son nor nephew among his people, nor any remaining in his dwellings.  Once more, I believe that Bildad was attempting to apply his beliefs to Job's situation.  We don't know about nephews, but Job's sons had died.  I believe that among other things that are wrong with Bidad's reasoning is the fact that he assumes that children and relatives will be punished for the sins of some else.  Each person is responsible for their own relationship with God.  Verse twenty states, They that come after him shall be astonied at his day, as they that went before were affrighted.  Those who saw Job were certainly astonished by his current state, even as before the had viewed him as a powerful man, whom they respected or even feared.  Verse twenty one concludes, Surely such are the dwellings of the wicked, and this is the place of him that knoweth not God.  I believe that Bildad was telling Job that Job knew that this was what he should have expected due to his sins and hypocrisy.  We can never claim that other people are deserving of suffering in this world due to their material or physical status in life.  Suffering and a lack of material wealth do not equate to punishment from God.

Job 18:1 says, Then answered Bildad the Shuhite, and said,  Job had asked his friends to just be quiet if all they could do was condemn him, but Bildad, like Eliphaz felt that he had to continue to try to correct what he saw was Job's lack of understanding.  In verse two, Bildad says, How long will it be ere ye make an end of words? mark, and afterwards we will speak.  Bildad wondered how long Job was going to continue to speak what he saw as empty words.  As we saw with Eliphaz, Bildad now becomes even stronger in his condemnation of Job.  I don't believe that either one had really listened to Job.  They had their minds made up that Job was a sinner and a hypocrite, so they were basically just waiting for Job to quit talking so they could point out how wrong he was.  When we are confronted with someone expressing an opinion we do not agree with, we too often fail to hear what they are saying.  We may hear their words, but often have dismissed them even before they are spoken.  Verse three asks, Wherefore are we counted as beasts, and reputed vile in your sight?  Bildad was basically accusing Job of calling his friends beasts, but he never had.  Job may have said that he felt that their reasoning was faulty, but he never said that they were as incapable of rational thought as were beasts, or animals.  We should not be surprised if someone who believes that we are wrong distort our words when they respond to what we have said.  Verse four says, He teareth himself in his anger: shall the earth be forsaken for thee? and shall the rock be removed out of his place?  Bildad may have been referring to Job's statement about tearing his flesh, but he was not referring to it with any understanding of what Job was saying.  We may repeat what someone said and use it out of context to prove our point, but we should listen to really understand what someone else is saying, especially if we disagree with them and want to correct the errors in their understanding.  Verse five says, Yea, the light of the wicked shall be put out, and the spark of his fire shall not shine.  Bildad now begins to try to show Job why he was wrong in what he had said.  There is a lot of truth in what Bildad tells Job, but it did not apply to Job.  We must be careful to never take general truths and claim that they apply in every situation, especially if we are using them to justify ourselves and condemn others.  Verse six says, The light shall be dark in his tabernacle, and his candle shall be put out with him.  Bildad was not speaking of a building, but of a person.  He was still saying that the wicked would die from their iniquity.  Yet, we know many very evil people who live long and prosperous lives.  Both good and evil people will die physically, but their spirits will live on.  Verse seven states, The steps of his strength shall be straitened, and his own counsel shall cast him down.  Bildad said that the steps of the wicked would ultimately be made straight and that they would be cast down by their own beliefs.  It is true that all sin will ultimately be done away with and that those who believe in anything other than God will be cast away, it doesn't mean that it will happen in this life.  Verses eight through ten continue to state the fate of the wicked for relying on their own strength and wisdom instead of God.  Verse eight says, For he is cast into a net by his own feet, and he walketh upon a snare.  Then verse nine, The gin shall take him by the heel, and the robber shall prevail against him. Finally, verse ten, The snare is laid for him in the ground, and a trap for him in the way.  I believe that Bildad was saying that the sinner would be ensnared in his own trap.  We can be certain that sin does entrap people in its own net if they do not allow God to set them free by putting their faith in Him, but that does not mean that they will always be brought to destruction in this life.

Job 17:10 says, But as for you all, do ye return, and come now: for I cannot find one wise man among you.  Job asked why his friends were returning to him again, since he could find no wisdom in what they were saying.   He said that they should be listening to him instead of speaking foolishly against Him.  If we see someone suffering and can only speak to them in judgment, we are better off remaining quiet, or may need instead to listen to what they have to say.  Though the truth of God will never change, our understanding of God may, or we might say even should.  We are called on to grow in knowledge and truth about God.  If we approach our relationship to God feeling that we already know everything that there is to know, we are indeed fooling ourselves.  In verse eleven Job states, My days are past, my purposes are broken off, even the thoughts of my heart.  Job felt no hope of restoration in this life.  He felt that his usefulness was past and had no more hope in his heart.  It is impossible to say how we would feel if we were in Job's place, but we should always acknowledge that all things are possible with God, and if we remain faithful, He will never leave us without hope.  Verse twelve says, They change the night into day: the light is short because of darkness.  Job said he could find no rest at night, and that his suffering would soon end in his death, where there would be no light.  Verse thirteen says, If I wait, the grave is mine house: I have made my bed in the darkness.  Job felt that his only hope for release from his physical suffering was to make the grave his home.  He would rest, or sleep, there in darkness.  The grave, or death, is the only thing that we can be certain of for this mortal body if Christ does not return in our lifetime.   Verse fourteen says, I have said to corruption, Thou art my father: to the worm, Thou art my mother, and my sister.  I believe that Job was saying that he had accepted that suffering was all that was left for him in life.  Everyone else had abandoned or condemned him, so his suffering was all he had left in his life.  If we do find ourselves suffering in life, hopefully we will have better family and friends than Job did.  In verse fifteen Job asked, And where is now my hope? as for my hope, who shall see it?  In this life, Job had no hope, but I believe that he still had faith in God, as evidenced by the question who would see his faith.  We know that no one can see our faith, except by our actions.  So, if we were to find ourselves in perpetual torment, who could see even evidence of our faith.  Verse sixteen says, They shall go down to the bars of the pit, when our rest together is in the dust.  I believe that Job was saying that his friends would come to his grave thinking that he suffered the ultimate punishment for his sins.  We must remember that his friends, and his wife, thought that material possessions and life itself was a reward for serving God faithfully, and that suffering, and even such a horrible death, were punishment from God.  They saw the grave as the end for Job, as they had no hope of his redemption due to his perceived lack of faith.

Job 17:1 says, My breath is corrupt, my days are extinct, the graves are ready for me.  Job felt that his life was in such torment that even his breathing was corrupted.  The days when he had a purpose in life seemed to be extinct, or a thing of the past.  I believe that Job really felt that he was beyond physical redemption, so he was ready to go to the grave and a spiritual restoration with God.  We may at times feel that death is our only hope, but we need to remember what happened with Job later on.  As long as we have life, we should have hope.  In verse two, Job asks, Are there not mockers with me? and doth not mine eye continue in their provocation?  Job was speaking of his friends and neighbors.  They were mocking his profession of innocence.  In their concept of God, the status of a person on this earth indicated their relationship with God.  Since Job had been very prosperous and was now reduced to torment, his friends ridiculed him for being a hypocrite.  I believe that Job was saying that the fact that he could still look them in the eye and proclaim his innocence provoked them to anger at him.  When we set ourselves up as moral judges and pronounce a person guilty of sin and they deny it, we tend to become angry at the person, and not the perceived sin.  We are not called to ridicule and provoke others, but to simply reach out to them with the love of God.  Verse three says, Lay down now, put me in a surety with thee; who is he that will strike hands with me?  Job put his surety in God.  Like Job, our friends may fail us, but as followers of Christ we can put our surety in God.  When we are resting securely in God's hands, no one can take us away from Him.  Those around us might want to ridicule or even fight with us, but God is our defender.  In verse four Job declares, For thou hast hid their heart from understanding: therefore shalt thou not exalt them.  Job said that God had caused his friends to be blinded to the truth.  Since I do not believe that God hides Himself or His truth from certain people and reveals it to others, a more accurate statement would be that Job's friends refused to see the truth of God.  They were so certain that they knew the reason for Job's suffering that they were not listening to God.  In our relationship to anyone, we need to first listen to what God has to say.  Verse five says, He that speaketh flattery to his friends, even the eyes of his children shall fail.  I believe that Job was saying that those who only seek to flatter, or speak good things about only their successful friends, will ultimately fail even their families.  If they are basing God's will on material things, then they do not have a true understanding of God, and they will ultimately fail spiritually.  Verse six says, He hath made me also a byword of the people; and aforetime I was as a tabret. Job said that his friends were using him as an example of God's punishment of the wicked, whereas beforehand they had used him as an example of God's blessing on the righteous.  That is the problem with exalting people as great examples of faith based on material possessions.  Verse seven says, Mine eye also is dim by reason of sorrow, and all my members are as a shadow.  Job said that sorrow had dimmed his eyes and he was but a shadow of what he had been.  Still, he didn't believe that he had committed some great sin that was causing his suffering.  Verse seven says, Upright men shall be astonied at this, and the innocent shall stir up himself against the hypocrite.  Job declared that even the upright, those who were honestly trying to follow God, would be astonished by Job's words of innocence, and the hypocrites would be stirred to speak out against Him.  Sometimes, if God's truth seems to go against what we believe, we may be astonished that we are wrong.  If we have been and are being hypocritical, then we will naturally oppose this truth from God, because if we don't, then we have to acknowledge our own sinfulness.  Verse nine says, The righteous also shall hold on his way, and he that hath clean hands shall be stronger and stronger.  Job said the righteous, those that God had made spiritually clean, should hang on to their faith, no matter what.  If we keep our faith in God, we will grow stronger and stronger spiritually, no matter what our physical condition might be.

Job 16:11 says, God hath delivered me to the ungodly, and turned me over into the hands of the wicked.  Job was feeling that if God was not directly behind his suffering that God had at best turned him over to the ungodly and wicked.  I believe that we could say that this was true, but not for the reasons that Job may have understood.  I believe that Job was saying that God had done this because He felt that Job was guilty of some great sin and was punishing Job.  We need to understand that as followers of Christ that if we are suffering in life and we are living for God as faithfully as we can that God is not going to cause the suffering, but He may allow the suffering to come.  We can never look at our relationship with God from our physical or material standing in the world.  Verse twelve adds, I was at ease, but he hath broken me asunder: he hath also taken me by my neck, and shaken me to pieces, and set me up for his mark.  Job said that when he was at ease, his world was destroyed.  He had lost his wealth, his friends, his family and his health.  These were all blessings from God, and Job held God directly responsible for his lose of them.  When we, as followers of Christ become too at ease in the world, it is quite possible that our world can be shaken apart, but we need to make sure that we never become angry at God because of it.  Job felt that God was treating him unfairly, but we can be sure that God will never be unfair in His relationship with anyone, especially those His followers.  Verse thirteen continues, His archers compass me round about, he cleaveth my reins asunder, and doth not spare; he poureth out my gall upon the ground.  I believe that Job felt that God had in effect placed him in a place where everything and everyone seemed to be against him.  If we were to find ourselves in the same situation as Job, we might feel just as defeated as Job did.  Verse fourteen states, He breaketh me with breach upon breach, he runneth upon me like a giant.  Job felt that God was continually punishing him and that he was helpless before God.  Though we are certainly helpless before God, once we accept Christ as our Savior and Lord, we can be just as certain that God is never going to set out to destroy us.  If trouble comes into our lives, we need to remain even more faithful to God.  Verse fifteen adds, I have sewed sackcloth upon my skin, and defiled my horn in the dust.  I believe that Job was saying that he had repented and humbled himself before the world and God.  Even though Job knew he had done nothing to deserve what he saw as punishment from God, he did not stand in self-pride and defy God.  We should always be willing be the same way in our relationship to God.  In good times or bad, we need to humbly submit to God.  Verse sixteen continues, My face is foul with weeping, and on my eyelids is the shadow of death;  Job was truly heartbroken over his condition, because he felt separated from God.  I am sure the physical pain was great, but the spiritual pain was greater.  Verse seventeen says, Not for any injustice in mine hands: also my prayer is pure.  Job said that his repentance and tears were not because he had done any injustice, but because he still realized his position in relationship to God.  Verse eighteen adds, O earth, cover not thou my blood, and let my cry have no place.  I believe that Job was basically saying that nothing in the earth could point to injustice on his part.  He might never be seen as guiltless in this life, but that wasn't where his hope was.  Verse nineteen continues, Also now, behold, my witness is in heaven, and my record is on high.  Job knew that his ultimate judgment was not in this world and the things of this world, but in heaven, where he knew he had a witness to the fact that he had been true to his faith in God.  We as followers of Christ know that He is our witness in heaven, and that the judgment of this world does not matter.  Verse twenty states, My friends scorn me: but mine eye poureth out tears unto God.  We, like Job, may be scorned by our friends, but our repentant hearts must always cry out to God.  Verse twenty-one adds, O that one might plead for a man with God, as a man pleadeth for his neighbour!  We know that we have an Advocate with God if we have accepted Christ as our Savior and Lord.  Job was looking ahead to the coming of that Advocate, but we know that He has already come, and we can put our faith in Him.  Verse twenty-two continues, When a few years are come, then I shall go the way whence I shall not return.  Job knew that his time on this earth was limited and that when he died he would never return again.  We do not come back as something or someone else.  When the body dies, the spirit returns to God forever.  We just need to realize that it doesn't matter if we have accepted Christ or not, the soul lives on.  The souls of the saved and the sinner will go to be judged by God.