1 Timothy 2:9 says, In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; Paul then began to speak to women, He said that they were to dress modestly and not worry about being adorned with a lot of jewelry or be concerned about the latest hairstyle, I believe we could say. I believe that this is especially true when we gather to worship God, but it is often not the case.
Verse ten continues, But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. Paul said instead of being worried about how they looked, women should be adorned with good works, so in this sense, it does not matter how they look as long as they are faithfully doing what God calls them to do.
Verse eleven continues, Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. We could spend a lot of time debating this verse, but I have to go back to God saying in Galatians 3:8 that in Christ, there is no male and female, but that we are all one in Christ.
Verse twelve states, But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. If women didn’t teach and fill positions in the church, a lot would never get done. Of course, they should be called by God to whatever position they may fill, and if they are, they will not be usurping any man.
Verse thirteen adds, For Adam was first formed, then Eve. Though Paul is correct and Adam was created first, when Eve was created, she was created out of his rib and was to be his other half, or his completion. I do believe that God has an order for the family and that the man under the leadership of the Holy Spirit should be the spiritual leader of the home, but that does not mean that a wife is supposed to be subservient to him. If they are both following God's will in their life, this should never become a problem.
Verse fourteen continues, And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. Paul said that Adam was not deceived, but that Eve being deceived allowed sin to come into the world. Still, not even being deceived, Adam willingly went along with Eve in disobeying God, which to me was an even greater sin.
Verse fifteen concludes, Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety. Paul said that women would be saved by giving birth, and this does continue God’s creation of men and women to exist forever, but it really has nothing to do with a woman being saved. If giving birth is the way women are saved, those who cannot have children could never be saved.