2 Timothy 4:9 says. Do thy diligence to come shortly unto me: Paul asked Timothy to do his best to come to him. He didn't say that it was God's will that this happen, nor did he say that God had promised it. Sometimes, we just have to leave everything in God's hands without making demands.
Verse ten continues, For Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world, and is departed unto Thessalonica; Crescens to Galatia, Titus unto Dalmatia. Paul said that Demus had forsaken him and gone to Thessalonica because he loved the present world more than he loved God. Whether he did this because he feared that he would be persecuted like Paul and was unwilling to allow that to happen to him or whether he loved the things of this world more is not clear, but the result was the same. As followers of Christ, we should never turn our back on our faith for either reason. Paul said that Crescens had left for Galatia and Titus for Dalmatia, but he did not say they had forsaken him because they loved the world more. It would seem that they had left to continue to proclaim God’s word. If we see a fellow believer in trouble today, we may not be able to be with them physically as we continue to do what God has called us to do, but we should not desert them spiritually.
Verse eleven states, Only Luke is with me. Take Mark, and bring him with thee: for he is profitable to me for the ministry. Paul said that only Luke remained with him, and then he asked Timothy to bring Mark with him when he came to see Paul. Paul then said that Mark was profitable to him for the ministry. I don’t believe that Paul asked these things just because they were what he personally wanted but asked them because he believed this was what God was directing him to do. At one time, Paul may have seen Mark as a failure spiritually, but now he said he was needed. If someone fails as a Christian at some point, that doesn’t mean that they are to be forever viewed as a failure.
Verse twelve adds, And Tychicus have I sent to Ephesus. Paul said that he had sent Tychicus to Ephesus. Once more, I believe this was by God’s leadership and not just Paul’s decision about where he was to go. I also believe that Tychicus had to feel led by God to go there. Preachers and missionaries should go where they believe God has sent them, even if they go under the assignment of some group of Christians.
Verse thirteen continues, The cloke that I left at Troas with Carpus, when thou comest, bring with thee, and the books, but especially the parchments. Paul then asked Timothy to bring a cloak he had left with Carpus, the books he had left but especially the parchments. The cloak would have been for physical comfort, but I believe that the books and parchments would have been for spiritual growth and comfort. We may need certain things to be physically comforted today, but we also need God’s word to bring us spiritual comfort and guidance, and this should be our priority.
Verse fourteen says, Alexander the coppersmith did me much evil: the Lord reward him according to his works: Paul then said that Alexander the coppersmith did him great evil, though he didn’t specify what he had done. He didn’t ask Timothy to do anything about this but simply asked that God reward him for his actions, and this would not be a positive reward. As Christians, if someone does us harm today, we are not to seek revenge but should leave their punishment up to God.
Verse fifteen adds, Of whom be thou ware also; for he hath greatly withstood our words. Paul then told Timoty to be aware of Alexander because he had greatly withstood Paul’s words, which would have been the word of God that he preached. There are some people today who are not only going to reject God's word but are going to actively oppose those who do. We need to be aware of them, but we are never to fear them.